Let’s talk about sex! In this case, let’s discuss a must-have item for your sexual life: Lube.
Without a doubt, lube is an absolute staple for your sex life, just like ketchup is a staple when having fries.
The lube always comes in handy in making the sex better, increasing the smoothness, moisture, pleasure, and most importantly, helping reduce friction and pain. Whether for vaginal sex, masturbating, anal sex, or just playing with sex toys, proper lubrication is essential to maintaining a pleasurable sex life.
There are a bunch of lubricants out there, and it all comes down to how you actually want to use one. There’s a selection of anything from water-based, silicon-based, oil-based, and there are also hybrid ones that offer the best of both worlds.
To make things easier for you, here’s a breakdown below:
Water-based: something to consider for that extra slippery touch, and it is the most versatile for condoms and sex toys. This is a good option if you have any sensitivity or vaginal irritation. It can be used when masturbating with or without toys.
- It won’t stain the sheets and rinses off easily with water.
- It can also be used when masturbating with or without toys.
- It can be used during sex with or without condoms.
- It cannot be used in a shower or bath.
Silicone-based: much thicker and also offers a more slippery touch. They are compatible with most natural rubber and latex condoms. It lasts longer than water-based lubes and is a perfect option for that shower or bath play, but you can’t use it with silicone toys.
- It will stain the sheets, but the stains can be removed with extra special treatment.
- It can be used during sex (with or without condoms) and anal.
- It is waterproof and can be used in a shower or bath.
Oil-based: the perfect option for that ultimate slipperiness. It can be used for any shower or bath play, and can also be used for a bit of sensual massage. But it can’t be used with latex condoms or latex toys.
- It will stain the sheets, but the stains can be removed with extra special treatment.
- It can’t be used with latex condoms or latex toys.
- It can be used for external sexual activities like hand-jobs and sensual massages.
Hybrids: these have both water and silicone for the best of both worlds, and they are compatible with most condoms.
Here are the best sex lubes to try:
NB* Always test products before using them on your genitals. Try testing on your arm and wait to see if you have a reaction. No reaction? Good to use. If you develop any itching, burning, pain, or other irregular symptoms, stop using it!
Always read the directions and isntructions on the product.
Liquid Gold Water-Based Lube
Where to buy: Faithful to Nature
Price: R299.00
Green Peach Essensually Wild Water Based Lube
Where to buy: Faithful to Nature
Price: R545.00
Durex Lubricant Play Warming
Where to buy: Dischem
Price: R134.95
Easyglide Personal Water-Based Lube
Where to buy: Dischem
Price: R29.95
plusOne Personal Lubricant Water-Based
Where to buy: Clicks
Price: R279.00
Durex Massage Gel 2in1 Guarana / Ylang Ylang / Aloe
Where to buy: Dischem
Price: R189.95
Personal Water-Based Lube Tropical Coconut / Champagne Berries
Where to buy: Dischem
Price: R56.95
Faithful to Nature Water-Based Lube
Where to buy: Faithful to Nature
Price: R129.00
Assegai Personal Water-Based Lube
Where to buy: Clicks
Price: R62.99
NB* Always test products before using them on your genitals. Try testing on your arm and wait to see if you have a reaction. No reaction? Good to use. If you develop any itching, burning, pain, or other irregular symptoms, stop using it!
Always read the directions and isntructions on the product.
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